i have this theory that the universe
makes your heart expands after suffering from pain... making your heart bigger,
and
each time you suffer pain, your heart grows larger... pain is good,
it
makes you
better, it takes you out to a world of more wonder, of
greater
happines...- john
cusack, must love dogs...
no you're not mistaken, read on... this blog's inspired by the movie i watched last night, the movie that kept me up most of last night, that i slept at work (lol)who doesn't? .. anyway, im not blogging here to talk about my snoozing sessions at work, but to blurp all the realizations i've come up to after watching the movie, (wudelse?)must love dogs...made it must love hogs, since i fell in love with how chrys more fondly call a pig, but i know the rabbit's not a pig or a hog. we're just not meant to be.. anyway.. i've learned a lot from that experience so i don't think its proper to be all bitter like a drooling okra. (haha)wat else would drool and be bitter like an okra?anyway , here they are:
-first, pain is good sometimes, when you suffer from pain, your heart grows bigger, i know there isn't any scientific conclusion on this, but who cares, if one has thought about it, it must be possible, i just came from a series of painful events, i should have a very big heart by now, but i'm not rushing things up, it might bruise me more in the process which leads me to my second conclusion
-don't rush things up, desperation is the key to more frustrations, well, i made that up but i think it's true... i've been very desperate and it grew quite pretty obvious and blew up right to my face afterwards. i hope not to get that desperate and impulsive again in the future, because of being desperate i scared that person i really cared about to bits, must've scared the wits out of the rabbit's hair. anyway, the rabbit's found a farmer, we'll the farmer's got carrots and that's just fine. i hope.. Going forward i've my third lesson coming right up.
-sometimes its not you who's a mess, it could be them as well. don't beat yourself up that much when things get out of hand. give yourself a little more credit, i bet when things get impossible , it's not all your fault,it might not be your fault at all,or the other way around but just remember you're a great person, no living being's born without imperfection, but hell,mistakes make a person a better one, which also concludes that the other person, that one you care about the most, could make their own sets of mistake commission, for a lack of a better term... . forgive, but not forget. always learn your lesson, go on, on to the next one, or better yet, rest for a while, then go to the next one (lol).
-you're a wonderful person who needs just a little bit of making over ... don't ever take that off your mind, if one left you, or didn't like you at all, it's not because your ugly, or your fat, or greasy... maybe you are, but then again, if you are, try to work things out in such a way that you'll feel better about yourself,not to make anyone else feel better. love yourself, when all else fail, you've no one to deal with but yourself, at least when you're sad, you can look at yourself straight in the mirror and still be happy with what it makes you see.. but this is not to mislead you into transforming yourself into a vanity monster, as i've said a little making over won't hurt, but anything that's too much would. remember: pretty is in the eye of the beholder, but beauty is within the soul - (nip/tuck, thanks eric for the correction!)
-another thing, don't just settle for the next one who comes along, it might turn out an even worse nightmare to begin with, plus it would both be unfair for both of you. when you've been scarred really deep from the last heartache, try to heal it for a while, time's the best healer at times with your faith that everything's gonna be alright, but don't overdo it.. date around, just dont commit again for the sake of not being alone, sometimes we need to be lonely to feel more complete when the right one comes along.
-lastly, have faith in love. not all men/women are losers. again, we all have our own sets of imperfection, which makes the search or life more exciting. who knows, you've got to be hurt, be left alone and forlon for now to realize in the future that you needed to get hurt to be able to tell a success story, a happy ending, and retell a serendipituous tale over and over again.
-don't you just love it when i'm this optimistic... life's too short to always be cynic. stay happy guys! and if you're not, just try it.
